Things are supposed to suck sometimes.
It's perfectly alright if they do!
THINGS FUCKING SUCK!!!!!
Good for you!
They should suck.
We are meant to go through awful experiences.
Not just because they help us grow or they help us empathize with others...
...but because things are awful sometimes!
I have never gotten to know anyone who did not have serious problems.
And why shouldn't we?
The expectation that we should have a happy, easy, picture perfect life is bullshit.
It just makes it that much more confusing when we don't.
We can't get away from life.
We can just be here...
...breath...
...do the best we can do...
...look for people who make us feel a little bit better...
Smile and laugh when we can.
Cry and scream when we must.
It's the only way through.